How does someone become an alcoholic?

Firstly, I would like to tell you why I think Jane became an alcoholic. She had no definitive diagnosis but this is my opinion. Below the picture are some general views on alcoholism.

She finds life too hard. She finds life too hard because emotionally and mentally her development was arrested I believe. She sometimes behaves like a 14-year-old. With that mentality life can become very hard. If life is hard you tend to want to get out of it and alcohol is a route to achieve that objective.

Also, her parents argued a hell of a lot. I believe that as a child she felt guilty that she was the cause of these arguments. This affected her self-esteem. She has low self-esteem. Low self-esteem makes life more difficult because it knocks your confidence. And you think things are your fault.

You become anxious and anxiety can lead to depression and depression can also lead to alcoholism.

In my view, her alcoholism originates in her early years and it's due to an environment created by her parents that was not conducive to the development of a healthy, confident child.

Lastly, her mother who is now dead, was very cold, and, in my view, an unpleasant person. She told Jane that she didn't want her as a child and that she would have preferred to have had a boy. This is another element in Jane's childhood which knocked her confidence, causing anxiety and depression.

She started to drink and eventually 'crossed the wire' i.e. became an alcoholic.

Alcoholism, also known as alcohol use disorder (AUD), is a complex condition influenced by a combination of factors. Let’s explore the reasons why some individuals become alcoholics:

1. Genetic Factors:

   • Research indicates that genetics play a significant role in alcoholism. Children of alcoholics are four times more likely to develop alcoholism themselves. While environmental factors contribute, there is a genetic link. Scientists are actively studying which specific genes increase the risk of alcoholism to develop targeted medications for treatment.
   • Crossing the wire. If a person drinks too much consistently over many years you can become an alcoholic as you 'cross the wire'. You teach yourself to become habituated to the drug which is addiction. From that point on you can only be a recovering alcoholic which means control it. You can't cure the disease. This information comes from caring for a binge alcoholic who is the subject matter of this website as am I. I have named her 'Jane'. Not her real name.

2. Physiological Changes:

   • Alcohol affects brain chemistry. It alters the balance of chemicals in the brain, particularly affecting the reward center where neurotransmitters like dopamine are involved.
   • Over time, the body craves alcohol to restore pleasurable feelings and avoid negative emotions.
   • Individuals with high stress, psychological issues (such as low self-esteem and depression), or other mental health challenges are at a higher risk of developing alcoholism.

3. Social and Environmental Factors:

   • Peer pressure, advertising, and environment play crucial roles.
   • Young people often start drinking because their friends do.
   • Media portrayal of drinking as glamorous and exciting can influence behaviour.
   • Signs that someone might be an alcoholic include:
     • Drinking to escape problems.
     • Frequent solitary drinking.
     • Lying about drinking habits.
     • Loss of interest in food.

4. Family Impact:

   • Alcoholism affects not only the individual but also their family and friends.
   • 40% of Americans have been exposed to alcoholism in their families, and 1 in 5 grew up with an alcoholic.
   • Children of alcoholics are more likely to experience abuse, anxiety, depression, and behavioural problems. They also have an increased risk of becoming alcoholics themselves.

Remember, seeking help and support is essential for both the alcoholic and their loved ones. Organizations like Al-Anon provide assistance to families affected by alcoholism, and Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) offers programs to overcome alcohol use disorder.

What are the stages of alcoholism?

Alcoholism, also known as alcohol use disorder (AUD), progresses through several stages. Keep in mind that these stages are not always linear, and individuals may experience them differently. Here are the typical stages:

1. Pre-Alcoholic Stage:

   • During this stage, individuals begin experimenting with alcohol.
   • Social drinking occurs, and alcohol is seen as a way to relax or have fun.
   • Tolerance starts to develop, meaning the person needs more alcohol to achieve the same effects.

2. Early Alcoholic Stage:

   • Regular alcohol consumption becomes more frequent.
   • The individual may start drinking alone or in secret.
   • Blackouts (memory lapses) may occur due to excessive drinking.
   • Denial is common, and the person may not recognize the problem.

3. Middle Alcoholic Stage:

   • Dependence on alcohol intensifies.
   • The person experiences cravings and withdrawal symptoms when not drinking.
   • Social, occupational, and personal life are affected.
   • Health issues may arise, such as liver damage or high blood pressure.

4. Late Alcoholic Stage:

   • Alcohol becomes the central focus of the person’s life.
   • Physical and mental health deteriorate significantly.
   • Relationships suffer, and work performance declines.
   • The individual may experience severe withdrawal symptoms, including hallucinations and seizures.

5. Chronic Alcoholic Stage:

   • This stage is characterized by severe physical and psychological dependence.
   • The person may be unable to function without alcohol.
   • Liver cirrhosis, pancreatitis, and other serious health problems are common.
   • Social isolation and financial ruin often occur.

6. End-Stage Alcoholic:

   • At this point, the person’s health is critically compromised.
   • Organ failure, cognitive impairment, and emotional instability are prevalent.
   • Death may result from alcohol-related complications.

Remember that seeking professional help is crucial at any stage. Treatment options include therapy, counselling, support groups (such as Alcoholics Anonymous), and medical interventions. If you or someone you know is struggling with alcoholism, consider reaching out for assistance.

Is there a cure for alcoholism?

Alcoholism is a complex condition that doesn’t have a straightforward cure. However, there are effective treatments and strategies to manage it. Let’s explore some approaches:

1. Medical Interventions:

   • Detoxification: This process helps individuals safely withdraw from alcohol. It usually occurs under medical supervision to manage withdrawal symptoms.
   • Medications: Several medications can help reduce cravings and prevent relapse. Examples include naltrexone, acamprosate, and disulfiram.
   • Psychiatric Medications: Addressing underlying mental health issues (like depression or anxiety) can be crucial in treating alcoholism.

2. Behavioural Therapies:

   • Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT): Helps individuals recognize and change negative thought patterns related to alcohol use.
   • Motivational Enhancement Therapy (MET): Encourages motivation for change and commitment to sobriety.
   • 12-Step Programs: Organizations like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) provide support, accountability, and a structured approach to recovery.

3. Support Groups and Counselling:

   • Connecting with others who have faced similar challenges can be immensely helpful.
   • Individual counselling, group therapy, and family therapy play essential roles.

4. Lifestyle Changes:

   • Avoiding Triggers: Identifying and avoiding situations that lead to drinking is crucial.
   • Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Encouraging healthier ways to manage stress, emotions, and boredom.
   • Building a Support Network: Surrounding oneself with supportive friends and family.

5. Long-Term Management:

   • Recovery is ongoing. It involves maintaining sobriety, addressing relapses, and making positive life changes.
   • Self-awareness and self-care are vital.

Remember that each person’s journey is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Seeking professional help, staying committed to treatment, and having a strong support system are essential for managing alcoholism. If you or someone you know is struggling, consider reaching out to a healthcare provider or a support group.

Sources: Many internet websites and personal experience in caring for an alcoholic.